Saturday, June 19, 2021

Helen's Online Appeal Hearing is June 22. Plus, A New Letter from Helen

 


 

Friends,

Helen Naslund’s appeal of her draconian 18-year-sentence takes place Tuesday, June 22 at 10:30 am Edmonton time. If you would like to watch online, contact tasc@web.ca for details. In the meantime, Helen has written another letter to all of you have supported her through this nightmare. “You are the ones who are responsible for keeping my strength up in order to keep fighting to get through each day,” she writes in the letter (below)



If you would like to correspond with Helen (or contribute to the costs of phone cards, canteen, other supports, etc), please contact tasc@web.ca

Thank you!

Matthew Behrens
Women Who Choose to Live

June 19, 2021

 

Dear Supporters

 

Hello everyone, this is Helen Naslund again. I truly feel I need to once again send a very sincere message to all of those thousands of people that have supported myself and the continuation of your support as Matthew continues to advocate on my behalf. I do not have enough words to express my thanks and appreciation for all of your kind words and support in signing the petition for this appeal on my behalf.

 

A special thanks to Matthew for forwarding many, many of the comments that have been posted. Matthew also sent me a sample of several of your posted images and comments for the Mother’s Day campaign. It is so very special and considerate of you all to show your caring support like this.

 

I still am so incredibly overwhelmed by the stunning amount of positive support from the thousands of people across the world. I only know the names of a few of the thousands of people that have taken their time to express their caring support. My heart goes out to all of you even if I don’t know who you are. 

 

I would just like for you all to know that each and every one of you out there that are giving support for this appeal, as well as all of your kind words and encouragement: you are the ones who are responsible for keeping my strength up in order to keep fighting to get through each day. Thank you all ever so much.

            

In case some of you are wondering what it is like for someone like myself to be incarcerated in a place like this – well, I’ll make a long story short. It feels like I’m in HELL with no way out! My circumstances seem to be unique to say the least. I do not fit in, nor do I feel like I belong here. And I am hating my life every day. A strange thought I keep having though is that  “it could be worse.” I get this from my father: no matter how bad things may seem, it could always be worse or there is always someone less fortunate.

 

I’ll close with some good news and some news that makes me anxious. First off, my son Neil, who was also sentenced, got paroled last month and is back home with his wife and kids. I am so happy for him and hope he can get on with his healing and his life with his wonderful family. As for me, my appeal date has been announced for June 22. I don’t know what will happen, and it’s my first time in front of a court since I was sentenced last fall. But I have a great lawyer, and I sincerely hope that the judges will understand the  complete picture that was missed the first time around. 

 

So it’s fingers crossed until then, and until I get a new decision.

 

Thank you again for all of your support and strength, which keeps me going through all of this.

 

Take care and stay safe everyone. 

 

Helen Naslund

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sunday, May 23, 2021

A Note of Thanks from Wrongfully Imprisoned Alberta Grandmother Helen Naslund

Wrongfully jailed Alberta abuse survivor, farmer, and grandmother Helen Naslund (shown with one of her grandkids) wrote the letter below to share how much it means to her that over 22,000 have signed a support petition, and others have written cards and letters. “All this public attention is a huge overload for me,” Helen writes. “Yet at the same time it does help to give me strength.” (Details on how you can support Helen are included below too).

 

It is truly astounding that Helen received an 18-year sentence for defending herself after 27 years of a brutal coercive-controlling marriage in which she faced the constant threat of being killed by her abusive husband.

 

Helen truly appreciates all who have signed our petition (keep sharing this link: https://www.change.org/p/this-grandmother-of-8-should-not-be-in-jail-please-support-her-appeal/ ) and written cards and letters (see below for how you can do this). People have signed the petition far and wide, including from Mexico, Germany, France, UK, Chile, Japan, India, Pakistan, Hungary, Poland, Guyana, Italy, Egypt, Ireland, South Africa, Argentina, Lithuania, Luxembourg, Cameroon, Tunisia, Lebanon, Israel, Greece. Male violence against women is a truly global pandemic.

 

In addition, leading advocates who work the frontlines in the struggle to end male violence against women and children have been incredibly supportive of Helen and the appeal she has launched. You can read more about that below. 

 

But first, a note from Helen:

Hello Everyone,

This is Helen Naslund. I have a much needed message to pass along to all the kind, caring supporters who have taken the time and shown their interest in signing the petition in support of the appeal of my sentence. 

 

There are many that have sent me a card and a letter expressing their sincere concern and positive support. However, there are also thousands of people across the country whose names I do not know but who have signed the petition. I do not have the words to thank you all enough. And a special thank you to Matthew Behrens and those who helped him with this incredibly overwhelming support group that is in progress. 

 

I have always been a very private person. Having said that, all this public attention is a huge overload for me. Yet at the same time it does help to give me strength. I need to power through this hellish situation I am in. 

 

Thank you all again for all your kind words and positive support. I truly appreciate all that you are doing.

 

Sincerely,

Helen

 

The support that Helen references has been seen from coast to coast to coast.

Jan Reimer, the Executive Director at the Alberta Council of Women’s Shelters, put the issue clearly when she wrote: "For 30 years society failed to provide Helen Naslund with a basic human right, her right to safety, and now we see her being incarcerated for 18 years. She suffered this abuse and also saw the impact it had on her children over and over again. If a man had been held hostage by terrorists for 30 years and then killed his captors to escape we would applaud his courage, bravery and endurance. Because she killed her captor, a domestic violence terrorist, we shame and sentence her to life in prison. How does the justice system reconcile this contradiction?"

 

Lise Martin of Women’s Shelters Canada, which represents over 600 nationwide shelters and women’s support services, wrote: "We trust a successful appeal that takes into account the time she has already 'served' – 27 years in a domestic prison and now over six months in federal prison – will bring an end to the punishment this abuse survivor must endure."

 

Jenny Wright of Newfoundland and Labrador, who has spent decades working to end male violence against women in that province, noted that: "Such a cruel and disproportionate sentence against Ms. Naslund erases 40 years of vital advocacy – culturally and systemically – to educate society about what gender-based violence is and its devastating impact on victims, families, communities and society as a whole."

 

JoAnne Brooks of the Women's Sexual Assault Centre of Renfrew County writes: "Thankfully, Helen Naslund did not become another femicide statistic. If the proper supports and services needed to address the unending epidemic of male violence against women had been in place and available to her, she would likely not be behind bars today. If a true understanding of the dynamics faced by Helen Naslund had been at play throughout her judicial journey, then we would have seen a far less severe outcome.”

 

Myrna Dawson of the Canadian Femicide Observatory for Justice and Accountability writes: "Helen Naslund’s case is stark evidence that years of alleged education and training for justice system actors have failed miserably in this jurisdiction. It also begs the question of how many other similarly situated women in this country have been failed. We need answers to these questions, fast. In the short term, Helen Naslund’s experiences of violence and how she was ultimately forced to respond are not her failings. These are our failings. They are society’s failings. A more compassionate and appropriate response is crucial. We support Helen Naslund’s appeal for justice."        


Helen still faces a challenging road ahead. While Helen is appealing her sentence, we will continue to build public support and awareness to end her nightmare and to prevent similar ones from taking place in the first place.

 

HOW YOU CAN HELP

 

1. Take a Selfie of support while holding a statement like “I Stand With Helen Naslund: Stop Punishing Survivors!” or “Helen Naslund Should Not Be In Jail for Surviving” or “Jailing Women Who Defend Themselves is a Crime, #StandWithHelen”, etc. 

 

2. When you post your selfie, share a few words about why you are doing this, and include a link to the petition in support of Helen: https://www.change.org/p/this-grandmother-of-8-should-not-be-in-jail-please-support-her-appeal (If you are not on social media, email it to tasc@web.ca and we can share it for you on the Women Who Choose to Live Facebook page) 

 

3. Email a copy of your selfie to Women Who Choose to Live at tasc@web.ca, and we’ll be sure to send a copy to Helen. 

 

4. If you would like to write a card/note to Helen, contact tasc@web.ca for details and an address. 

 

5. If you work with an organization that would like to write a support letter, contact tasc@web.ca and we’ll send you details!

 

Thank you to everyone for standing with Helen.

Please stay in touch as we campaign to end the jailing of survivors and work toward a world in which male violence against women and children is brought to an end.


Matthew Behrens

Women Who Choose to Live

tasc@web.ca

 


Sunday, May 2, 2021

Hope for Helen: Stand With Imprisoned Grandmother/Abuse Survivor Helen Naslund

 


 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
During the week leading up to Mother’s Day (May 2-9), join our social media campaign to show support for Alberta abuse survivor, farmer, and grandmother Helen Naslund. 
 
Helen was sentenced to 18 years in prison for defending herself against the constant threat of being killed by her abusive husband. She endured almost three decades of coercive-controlling abuse, only to be punished for surviving. Allowing the current sentence to stand would constitute a grave miscarriage of justice.
 
This week of online action is to support Helen’s appeal, and to publicly denounce one of the most severe sentences ever meted out against a woman in Canada defending herself from male violence in the home. 
 
WHAT YOU CAN DO:
1. Take a selfie while holding a statement like “I Stand With Helen Naslund: Stop Punishing Survivors!” or “Helen Naslund Should Not Be In Jail for Surviving” or “Jailing Women Who Defend Themselves is a Crime, #StandWithHelen”, etc. 
 
2. When you post your selfie, share a few words about why you are doing this, and include a link to the petition in support of Helen: https://www.change.org/p/appeal-draconian-18-year-sentence-of-alberta-abuse-survivor-helen-naslund   (If you are not on social media, email it to tasc@web.ca and we can share it for you on the Women Who Choose to Live Facebook page)
 
3. Email a copy of your selfie to Women Who Choose to Live at tasc@web.ca, and we’ll be sure to send a copy to Helen.
 
4. If you would like to write a Mother’s Day card/note to Helen, contact tasc@web.ca for details and an address. 
 
5. If you work with an organization that would like to write a support letter, contact tasc@web.ca and we’ll send you details!

BACKGROUND
In October, 2020, Helen Naslund was sentenced to 18 years in prison on a charge of manslaughter. As many have pointed out, she had already been held captive for close to 30 years in an incredibly abusive marriage. In an agreed upon statement of facts, the Crown acknowledged that throughout the marriage, there were “many” instances of physical and emotional abuse committed against Naslund, who at five foot, one inch, weighed about 100 pounds.
 
Indeed, the way Helen Naslund described it, her spouse was a classic abuser: "When I was in public he was always right there, if I talked to a friend he had to be there with his input. I couldn't go anywhere without him … it was always 'do as I say or else.'"
 
The statement of facts also acknowledged that "due to the history of abuse, concern for her children, depression and a learned helplessness, she felt she could not leave."

It is not clear why a guilty plea of manslaughter was entered, nor why her defence lawyer worked in tandem with the Crown to produce such an extraordinarily disproportionate sentence even as they discussed -- but then dismissed -- the availability of a defence based on "battered woman syndrome."
 
A Draconian Sentence
Elizabeth Sheehy (whose book Defending Battered Women on Trial is an indispensable resource) pointed out in an Edmonton Journal interview that 18 years is among the longest of any manslaughter sentence imposed on an abused woman, and the majority of women in the cases she has studied received two years or less and sometimes a suspended sentence or house arrest. (A much smaller number received a federal sentence, the longest of which was 10 years).
 
Helen's son Wesley gave a post-sentencing interview in which he detailed the many ways his mother tried to navigate the terror of living with her abusive spouse.
 
"Nothing worked," he said. "And I believe at the end, when it happened, I believe that my mother was -- I could tell she wasn't mom no more. She was empty, she was blank. At times, you'd look at her and you'd swear her eyes were hollow."
 
Wesley says he was also beaten by his father, and that it was always like walking on eggshells, having to account for everything he did. His father always kept a gun close at hand, ruling by threat and intimidation.
 
Setting Things Back 40 Years
He also says his mom tried to leave when he was 16, and he remembers her coming out of the bedroom after telling her husband it was over. When she emerged, he said, "she had tears in her eyes and all she said was 'I can't go, he says he'll find me and he'll kill me.'"
 
Jenny Wright, an expert panelist with the Canadian Femicide Observatory for Justice and Accountability, writes: “In decades of anti-violence work, I have not witnessed such a punitive sentence as the sentence against Ms. Naslund… I am profoundly and deeply alarmed at the continuous and prevalent pattern of criminalizing the survivors of gender-based violence, which perpetuates the abuse and does not serve the public interest. In fact, such a cruel and disproportionate sentence against Ms. Naslund erases 40 years of vital advocacy – culturally and systemically – to educate society about what gender-based violence is and its devastating impact on victims, families, communities and society as a whole.”
 
While Helen has launched an appeal of her sentence, she still has a difficult road ahead as the case winds its way through the courts and she remains behind bars. Your support in the week leading up to Mother’s Day and going forward will play a critical role both to lift Helen’s spirits and to stop this dangerous precedent from being used against other survivors.
 
MOTHER’S DAY FOR INCARCERATED WOMEN
Over the past few years, there’s been a reclamation of Mother’s Day from a saccharine Hallmark moment to a call to action responding to the fact that women (many of whom are parents and most of whom are racialized) represent the fastest growing sector of the prison population in Canada.
 
According to Policy4Women, “82 percent of women in prison are jailed as a result of behaviour related to attempts to cope with poverty, histories of abuse, and addiction and mental health issues that commonly arise from these experiences. In every province and territory, social assistance payments are so inadequate that women end up criminalized for doing what they must to support themselves and their children….87 percent of all women in federal prisons in Canada have experienced physical and/or sexual abuse….If a woman uses force to protect herself or others – especially if a weapon is involved – she will commonly face the full, often disproportionate, weight of the law.”
(More at: https://www.criaw-icref.ca/images/userfiles/files/P4W_BN_IncarcerationRacializedWomen_Accessible.pdf)
 
Since 1991, when the Task Force on Federally Sentenced Women, Creating Choices, produced a report on rising numbers of women in prison, the number of women sentenced to federal jails – especially racialized women – has risen 200%. (more at https://www.policyalternatives.ca/.../decriminalizing-race)
 
Additional articles:
 
 
To get involved, contact Women Who Choose to Live at tasc@web.ca

Saturday, April 17, 2021

Trudeau is All Words and No Action on Male Violence Against Women



By Matthew Behrens

 (This story appears on rabble.ca as of April 19, 2021)


April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month, and while there has been plenty of awareness this year, there remains precious little government action on ending the scourge of male violence against women and children, both at home and globally.

Indeed, it seems there were more politicians’ tweets of concern and condolence over the death of Prince Philip than there were in response to the mid-March release of the Canadian Femicide Observatory for Justice & Accountability’s report on Femicide in 2020, which documented the killing of 160 women and girls last year. A woman or girl is killed (almost invariably by a man) every 2.5 days in this country, a consistently high rate that has marked every year under Justin Trudeau’s self-proclaimed “feminist government”. But this annual slaughter was part of the news cycle for only a brief moment, with nary a call to address this ongoing emergency from federal party leaders. As of April 13, the Observatory had recorded at least an additional 56 killings of women and girls since the start of the year.

The 2020 femicide report found a greater proportion of women and girls were killed in rural settings (54%) despite the greater representation of urban dwellers in Canada. Women aged 55-64 were the largest proportion of victims, followed by those aged 25-34 and 35-44. The largest proportion of male accused were 25-34. More than 20% of victims were Indigenous.

            Since record keeping began in 1961, the Observatory notes over 10,000 women have been victims of femicide in Canada. While mass killings of women in such horrors as the Toronto van attack or the terrorist rampage in Portapique, Nova Scotia generate headlines and one-day media discussions that tend to dance delicately around the issue of whether armed misogyny is at the root, the Observatory notes that any public outrage expressed during such times “does not seem to be matched when men kill multiple family members, with the primary target being their female partner. These are also often mass killings motivated by misogyny.”

 

Misogyny and White Male Entitlement

Significantly, the Observatory report says “the role of misogyny – and white male entitlement – continues to play a role in women’s deaths…[Y]et, still today, we continue to witness resistance to acknowledging the role of misogyny in violence against women and girls, particularly if men and boys are also killed alongside female victims. This, in turn, prevents our ability to address the role of misogyny in addressing the persistently stable rates of violence against women and girls in Canada and globally.”

            In the past five years, the Observatory has documented the killings of over 761 women, mostly by men who were close to them. In 2020, many cases of femicide were preceded by “chronic abuse and violence toward victims who were ultimately killed by their abusers.” Some of the women, the report notes, did have system contact (i.e., police, courts). In one instance, they cite the case of a man who had been taken into custody on 3 occasions, usually for breaching court orders, and who was released to house arrest, upon which he committed the femicide. In a separate case, the abuser had been released after doing time for a previous assault against the eventual femicide victim; he had been arrested four times previously for disobeying a no-contact order.

            In other cases, the report notes women faced barriers accessing women’s shelters and expressed fears about the potential involvement of child services if they reported their abuser. In many cases, friends and other family saw signs of abuse but did not realize their extent. The report also discusses “coercive-controlling behaviour” which men use against women, from psychological abuse and stalking to sexual jealousy and viewing and treating women as property. In a disturbing signal about the normalization of such coercive-controlling behaviour, the Observatory points out that these “often go unnoticed as red flags for the femicide that ultimately occurs and, therefore, are significantly underestimated.”

            The report laments an institutional “inability to address negative and damaging attitudes, beliefs, and stereotypes about violence in intimate relationships. Evidence of the potential negative outcomes arising from such attitudes can be seen in 2020 cases in which violence against women in the context of intimacy continues to be minimized and normalized…for various cases, it was reported in the media that police had been called to respond to arguments between couples which were labelled by police as ‘minor’ or family members claimed that the victim was involved in a ‘toxic’ relationship. Arguably, then, the power imbalances in these relationships are not captured when such descriptors are used and demonstrates how formal and informal responses continue to normalize what is not normal – violence against women by their male partners.”

 

Acknowledging Without Acting

Meanwhile, spokespersons for male-dominated institutions like the military and the police are increasingly using the Trudeau-esque language of acknowledging the failures to end violence against women as the standard response for failing to do anything about it. It’s easy for men to be applauded for declaring that something must be done to end male violence, but such words ring hollow amidst the dearth of accountability mechanisms and system change required to ensure transformational change.

On April 1, Ottawa police officer Eric Post ­­ -- who for over 3 years had been suspended with pay after being charged with 32 offences, including assault, sexual assault, and forcible confinement committed against seven women ­-- pleaded guilty to only seven of those counts in exchange for three years of non-reporting probation and resigning from the force. Among the charges dropped were some relating to one woman who took her life last year.

“I would fear going out for recess duty… walking to my driveway… even walking to my mailbox…or fear he would set my house on fire,” said one woman in a victim pact statement read in court. Another responded to the verdict thusly: "Eric Post gets a three-year probation for years of torture? I'm thinking this must be an April fools joke? There were multiple victims and long-term damage on each of us. I'm not sure I have faith in our system anymore.”

Post’s lawyer showed how little he understood about male violence against women when he tried to downplay Post’s actions by saying there were no physical injuries but acknowledging "lasting emotional and psychological impacts," as if the latter were somewhere far down the hierarchy of pain and suffering.

Ottawa police chief Peter Sloly, meanwhile, taking a page from the Trudeau Feminist Talking Points Playbook, said, “We are taking steps as an organization to ensure we are taking a victim-centric, trauma-informed approach to supporting survivors as they go through this difficult process.”

Nice as such words sound, they are fairly meaningless coming from the head of a police organization. Ottawa psychotherapist Mandi Pekan (a specialist in trauma, urban violence and community development who also serves as project director for the Street Resilience Project) points out, “Trauma informed care is a cultural shift. It’s built into the policies, procedures and protocols that actively resist re-traumatization. Police cannot be trauma informed because they work for an organization that is inherently traumatizing. Policing is built on a culture of ‘us vs them’ approach. This cannot prosper in a trauma-informed environment. It goes against the [trauma informed] approach that actively renounces the ‘us vs them’ mentality. Throwing trauma trainings at police is not going to make them trauma informed.”

Indeed, CBC’s The Fifth Estate detailed in February the systemic sexism and misogyny of Ottawa Police brought forward by 14 separate women in the force over the past three years. “From casual sexism such as being called ‘fresh meat’ to more serious claims such as forced masturbation and rape,” the investigation “found an entrenched culture of sexism that raises questions about how complaints are investigated, and in some cases, according to the women, even suppressed within the Ottawa Police Service.” Among those who have been accused of sexual harassment are current deputy chief Uday Jaswal.

The structural misogyny built into municipal police forces is a similar trait to what runs rampant through the RCMP, which, despite apologizing in 2016, has never charged or truly held accountable any of the men responsible for “rape, unwanted sexual touching, physical assault, sexist comments, threats, gender discrimination, harassment and bullying.”

 

Sexualized Military Culture

Similarly, the Canadian military, as documented in 2015 by the former Supreme Court Justice Marie Deschamps, remains built on an “underlying sexualized culture…that is hostile to women and LGTBQ members, and conducive to more serious incidents of sexual harassment and assault.” Just this week, the Liberals and Bloc Quebecois teamed up to shut down a House of Commons committee investigating male violence against women in the Canadian military. While there had been quite valid concerns raised that committee members were using their time to take partisan shots at one another without getting to the heart of the matter – the epidemic of violence against women and LGBTQ in the military – the committee could have pressed on, but failed to do so.

This Defence committee – along with the Status of Women House committee – had been tasked with investigating allegations against some of the top Canadian military brass, including former chief of the defence staff Gen. Jonathan Vance and his replacement, Admiral Art McDonald, both under investigation by the military's National Investigation Service over separate allegations of sexual misconduct. War Minister Harjit Sajjan and Trudeau’s office were aware of the allegations against Vance, as was the previous regime under Stephen Harper.

Meanwhile, Vice Admirald Hayden Edmundson has also stepped aside following the release of allegations that he sexually assaulted a 19-year old female crew member in 1991. Stéphanie Viau told CBC she was raped by Edmundson aboard HMCS Provider, and that she was now coming forward seeking an investigation and charges in an effort to heal. She told CBC that she had also been sexually assaulted by two other superiors prior to the attack by Edmundson.

Despite knowing Edmundson was investigated for a pattern of behavior including “suggestive or unwelcome comments, sexual advances, predatory behaviour and inappropriate relationships with female subordinates,” Vance promoted him in 2019 “to manage military personnel command, which gives him authority over career consequences for military members found to have engaged in sexual misconduct,” the CBC reported. Survivor Stéphanie Viau wrote in response, “How ironic that HE was placed in such a position. We will not be able to fix this tolerated sexual misconduct culture with the same people that nourished it.”

The committee hearings had originally been scheduled following the courageous coming forward of numerous women like Major Kellie Brennan, who told Global news: “I wasn’t allowed to tell the truth until I was given permission to tell the truth. I didn’t even know how to get that permission. I tried. I asked my chain of command for permission to speak, and I listened to a whole range of reasons why I should and shouldn’t.” 

 

4,600 Claims

In addition, high-profile Lt.-Col. Eleanor Taylor quit the military in March, writing "I am sickened by ongoing investigations of sexual misconduct among our key leaders. Unfortunately, I am not surprised. I am also certain that the scope of the problem has yet to be exposed. Throughout my career, I have observed insidious and inappropriate use of power for sexual exploitation. I am not encouraged that we are ‘investigating our top officers.’ I am disgusted that it has taken us so long to do so.”

The most recent comments echo those of women who, for years, have been speaking out against the epidemic of male violence that is at the core of the military’s culture. There are currently some 4,600 claimants who are part of a massive class action suit against the military for sexual harassment, gender discrimination and sexual assault.

 Former Canadian Armed Forces member Paula MacDonald told a Parliamentary committee in 2019 that her military career was short, unfulfilling and painful. I voluntarily released from the service because my chain of command refused to reasonably address the behaviours of superiors who discriminated against my abilities and sexually harassed and objectified me. I was subjected to increasing levels of violence from service members who behaved inappropriately, and I left to protect my physical safety.”  

At the time, MacDonald noted that changes suggested by the Deschamps report  “must be facilitated by the larger Canadian government, because internal DND systems, developed by the CAF leadership, favour superiors who behave abusively over victims of this abuse through unit-led investigations.”

Meanwhile, a new poll reveals that 78% of respondents agree that the Canadian military has a systemic problem of sexual harassment, including among senior leaders. Women are more likely to agree with this statement (83%), though men are not far behind (72%). More than three-quarters of those polled agreed that the federal government response is “all talk and no action.”

Despite such public awareness of criminal violence, the Canadian military faces zero consequences as an institution for its failure to protect the lives of the women in its ranks. The self-proclaimed feminist government of Justin Trudeau continues to devote almost $32 billion annually – the largest share of federal discretionary spending – to an organization whose foundational culture is built on hatred of women.  If one consequence of the War Dept.’s failure to seriously end violence within its ranks were a significant loss of funding – perhaps redirecting those funds to the National Action Plan to End Violence Against Women and Girls which Trudeau has yet to implement – maybe then a federal department which is always coddled and never held to account might face a serious reckoning.

 

Street-Level Misogyny

While institutionalized misogyny continues to present itself as a massive national security issue for more than half of the population, such violence on an individual level continues to grow exponentially.

On April 11, a global study of street harassment in 15 countries (Brazil, Canada, China, France, India, Italy, Mexico, Poland, Russia, Spain, South Africa, Thailand, UAE, UK, and USA.) revealed almost 80 percent of women reported street harassment, with 50% of those surveyed declaring that they did not feel safe in public spaces. In a major indictment of the failure of both so-called democratic countries as well as authoritarian regimes, 75% of those women “said they avoided certain public spaces to try to avoid street harassment and 54 percent said they avoided some forms of public transportation specifically.” During the pandemic, 72% of women reported that it appeared that harassers “were emboldened to harass because of the increased anonymity a mask gave them.

For Canadians under the misapprehension that they live in a country led by a feminist government, the survey numbers are a stark reminder of how little has been done to end a culture of misogyny. Among Canadian respondents, 84% of women reported at least one incident of street-level sexual harassment, with 54% answering that they have experienced, even during the social distancing pandemic, “unwanted touching, hugging or kissing” and 38% reporting “somebody hanging around me  or following me with sexual intentions.”

While the federal and provincial governments have no serious plans to address such male violence, it is left to community-level individuals and groups to do the heavy lifting. One such effort is a series of bystander intervention trainings being offered this month by the international Hollaback! organization, with Canadian trainings in English and French.

One of those doing the training is internationally recognized women’s rights advocate and public educator Julie Lalonde, whose acclaimed book Resilience is Futile was published last year. Lalonde recently testified at the Status of Women committee about her own experience of relentless male violence following her 2014 appearance at the Royal Military College to teach cadets about ending sexual harassment. In addition to the hostile reception she received there – at what she named the worst audience she has ever dealt with – during the years following her public discussion of this toxic masculinist nightmare she received “thousands of threatening emails, social media messages and even phone calls. I’ve been accosted at in-person events and I can no longer speak in public without a security detail. I have paid dearly for my courage and so it is very disheartening to see those of you with immense power shying away from the work necessary to make change.”

Lalonde called on committee members to show the courage of one cadet who, amidst the heckling and threats being hurled at Lalonde at the RMC, stood up to the hostile mob. “He began to berate his classmates for attacking me, told them they were being babies and went so far as to say that ‘The way we talk about women at RMC is embarrassing.’”

For Lalonde, part of the way forward is going beyond vague acknowledgements and using language that truthfully describes the on-the-ground reality. “Are CAF members uncomfortable with terms like rape culture, toxic masculinity, survivor-centred? Absolutely,” said Lalonde. “But you cannot change something you won't even name.”

 

Performative gestures

In addition to naming, proper data collection is also crucial. As the Femicide 2020 authors note, “the lives of women and girls are at risk because we are not collecting, or making available, the right information to support prevention efforts,” which would include, for example, Statistics Canada’s homicide figures indicating whether a murder was a femicide. In the absence of official data, researchers have to rely on media and court records, while those collecting the data are “increasingly withholding basic facts – sex, gender, relationship, method of killing, and so on.”

The Femicide 2020 report concludes that while governments say ending male violence against women is a priority, “are these symbolic and often performative gestures being followed with concrete action by way of investment of resources, the establishment of long-term, sustainable initiatives, and an emphasis on the vital, quality training of those working in responding sectors that needs to accompany such changes?”

Indeed, as the second anniversary of the final report of the Inquiry into Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women and Girls approaches, there is still no federal response to the inquiry’s recommendations. On the first anniversary in 2020, Crown-Indigenous Relations minister Carolyn Bennett blamed the pandemic for its failure to act. “For that excuse to be used, that’s an embarrassment to the government,” said Lorraine Whitman, president of the Native Women’s Association of Canada, at the time.

Last fall, the Ontario Native Women's Association put together a report, Reconciliation with Indigenous Women, that contained numerous recommendations for what should be included in a national action plan to address male violence against Indigenous women and girls. The organization’s executive director, Cora McGuire-Cyrette, said “We wrote this report to help the government, to say 'here is a pathway, here is a plan you can take and implement as soon as possible,’” and indeed, they did so during the same pandemic that was used as an excuse for no action from Ottawa.

One of those who testified at the inquiry, Charlotte Gliddy-Murray, told CBC, “After the inquiry was done, I feel that the government just dropped us. By us, I mean the family members. There was no follow-up whatsoever after we gave our testimonies, and that is not right.”

 

Male Violence against Racialized Women

Often ignored or obscured in this discussion is the trauma of male violence against racialized women. A significant challenge to this reality relates to the dearth of proper data collection (referenced as a major obstacle in the Femicide 2020 report) as well as a failure by institutions and governments to undertake - let alone act upon - an analysis of intersectional forms of oppression.

The patterns of institutional violence against Black women that run the gamut from police and social workers to health care facilities and economic apartheid are well described in Montreal writer and activist Robyn Maynard’s landmark book, Policing Black Lives.  As poet, educator and organizer El Jones writes, “Women and their children are policed intergenerationally. Black girls are labelled as disobedient and angry, records that follow them for life. Black girls are hypersexualized, viewed as older than their age, and disciplined and suspended more harshly. For both Black and Indigenous women, girls, and Trans women under colonization, sexuality and reproduction themselves are criminalized. Black bodies are surveilled at the most intimate levels.”

            Jones proposes that any effort to address these multi-system layers of violence must consider how communities are resourced. “Grants that only designate funding for organizations, use inaccessible language, or that demand formal financial records are not built for Black women working in community,” Jones says. “Mutual aid funding initiatives create models for communities to gather and distribute funds directly to people in need…. I often say that a Black woman given $10,000 can do more than institutions working with millions. Black women run breakfast programs out of their houses, help neighbourhood kids with their homework, mother community children, and prepare boxes for incarcerated community members. Working with Black communities to identify the grassroots women who are known to do the work and getting resources directly to them allows Black women to do the transformative labour day to day that sows the seeds of justice. If we want to end our reliance on policing, we must invest in Black women first.”

            Meanwhile, violence against Asian women has also seen a significant rise, manifested in everything from individual street attacks to the recent mass femicide in Atlanta. The Chinese Canadian National Council’s report of over 1,150 anti-Asian hate crimes during the first year of the pandemic notes 60% of targets were women. “There’s so much pain and grief,” said Amy Go of the Chinese Canadian National Council for Social Justice following the Atlanta massacre. “At the same time, as Asian Canadian women, none of us were surprised. There was no sense of shock. It was as if we knew this was coming … it just happened to be in Atlanta.”

            While Trudeau expressed his shock and dismay over the Atlanta murders, Avvy Go, Executive Director of the Chinese and Southeast Asian Legal Clinic in Toronto, pointed out that the 2019 federal government’s anti-racism strategy specifically failed to mention anti-Asian racism. And while some funding has flowed for anti-racism initiatives, critics point out that the focus on specific projects deflects from the broader institutional barriers that remain unaddressed regarding employment, immigration and income supports.

            Meanwhile, as Trudeau’s government puts out its boilerplate statements of solidarity with Muslims marking Ramadan, his government is continuing to look the other way as Muslim women in Quebec are subjected to apartheid legislation (C-21) that removes them from public employment positions if they wear a hijab or niqab.  Attacks against Muslim women in Quebec are not unique to that province, though, as Edmonton recently reported six separate attacks on Muslim women  who were walking in parks, sitting in a car, or waiting for a bus.

            As always, the failure of governments to take proper action are being remedied as much as possible at the grass roots and community level  by women directly impacted by male violence. In Montreal, for example, Nisa Homes is working throughout Ramadan to fundraise for a transitional home for immigrant, refugee and Muslim women and children fleeing male violence. While it is admirable that these efforts are underway, it must remain frustrating to see institutions like the police and military where such male violence thrives receiving unending amounts of cash while those who tend to the survivors must hold bake sales and raffles to open safe spaces.

            An so, as the final two weeks of Sexual Assault Awareness Month continue, may it be an opportunity to build out of that awareness real action to end male violence against women.